Just a little update after MIA-ing for the past week. Right, I was busy crossing hurdles and today, I just had my last seminar class for the semester and I did a presentation on Sports Performance Anxiety (which is my last assignment for the semester). Brought in the case study of Liu Xiang and used that as a lead-in for my presentation. Seriously, I was a little nervous prior to presentation because my seminar lecturer is a sports psychologist for the australian men’s hockey team, so I had to be clear and know what I was presenting. Well, all is good! phew…
I came back home for lunch and I thought it would be great idea to catch up with my reading (haha, definitely not textbooks and academic journal articles!). Anyone can make a smart guess the book I read just now, with the title of this entry provided?
BINGO!!
Yep, it’s The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey. Actually, this is my second time reading that book but I really like this book because it highlights the principles that one’s must possess as HABITS in order to achieve true interdependent effectiveness; meaning aligning one’s needs and desires with those of other people and create effective relationships.
But today, I’m just going to talk about what I feel, personally, a principle that strikes me a great deal and that’s Habit 2: BEGIN WITH THE END STATE IN MIND.
In his book, Stephen R. Covey captures the essence of strategic thinking and with that, it all boils down to being absolutely clear minded of what you really want in life. He illustrated this concept with a visualisation exercise…. (Touchwood, it’s just a visualisation exercise) Imagine that at the end of your life, you were able to listen what was being said during your funeral, what would you like people to say about you, as a father, as a life partner, or as a colleague? And in this principle, whatever it is that you would like to hear, you are now in the position to start living the life and establishing the relationships that you want to make it happen.
Personally, I think that is a really power and good personal development advice. By being clear of what you want in life, you increase the chances of achieving it.
So now, how do you actually achieve it?
Covey recommends formulating a personal vision statement to document one’s perception of one’s own vision in life. In the process of developing your personal vision statement, you can use your creative imagination to visualise milstones of your career, your family, or your accomplishments. Visualise what you are going to achieve in great detail.
That’s powerful, eh? so what are you waiting for? Start writing a vision statement work towards it!
Have a great week ahead! =)













